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Financial Responsibility: Childs play?

We are always looking for great tips to share with local parents that help make our journey a little easier together!  That’s why we are proud to sponsor local consignment events like Just Between Friends and Cradles to Crayons that are so helpful for local families! Here’s a great article on the financial benefits that these events offer our kids from Just Between Friends.

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Young adults today have opportunities to get into more financial trouble than previous generations. Take, for instance, the sky-rocketing percentages of college students receiving financial aid. A recent study showed that 60 percent of students obtaining a secondary education have taken out student loans to pay for tuition and living expenses. Outstanding student loans totaled over $1.2 trillion in 2015.

Credit card debt owed by U.S. Consumers has reached a staggering $712 billion. This means the average person has around $15,355 in credit card debt alone.

A contributing factor is, no doubt, income growth has been outpaced by the rise in cost of living expenses over the past 12 years. However, it is no surprise that over-spending habits and materialism have continued to expand America’s growing debt problems more than ever before.

There has never been a time when educating children on financial responsibility has been more important. Promoting work ethic and entrepreneurship, and teaching children healthy spending habits when they’re young will help ensure they become financially responsible adults.

And Just Between Friends of Lubbock, TX, a local bi-annual consignment sales event, offers a good venue for parents to start their children’s financial education experience.

“Every aspect of JBF promotes financial responsibility,” says Courtney Kattner, event coordinator for Lubbock JBF. “Consigning your children’s outgrown, un-used items is a great way to start teaching them the importance of getting the full value out of material goods purchased at retail prices and encourages entrepreneurship.”

Lubbock JBF consignors priced, tagged, and dropped off over 35,000 of their own items to the previous Back-to-School 2015 sale in August. Earning up to 70% of their gross sold items, the average consignor check was $409. Kattner, who also participates as a JBF consignor, says she makes enough money selling her own children’s items to purchase the majority of what they need for the next season without spending any additional money.

And the financial value gained by participating in consignment sales events don’t stop there. “Shopping for needed items at consignment sales before buying them from retail stores teaches families to use their financial resources wisely,” states Kattner. “I have been buying about 95% of my kids’ wardrobe at Lubbock JBF for the last 6 years. Because of JBF, I am financially able to provide my kids with almost everything they need, in brands they love, without creating financial stress for my family.”

Effective teaching of financial responsibility includes showing children how to live within your means. And living within your means, is finding a way to meet your needs without spending more than you get paid. If this financial value is not instilled in a child, you end up raising an overactive consumer or someone who is constantly competing with the Joneses. Consignment shopping shows children they can spend less money on what they need, creating more available money for items they want, while staying within their spending limits.

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Most consignment sales events, including Lubbock Just Between Friends, give a higher percentage to consignors who volunteer to help work the sale, promoting the idea that work ethic increases higher wages.

“Even the idea of earning a higher percentage in exchange for volunteer hours during the sale promotes solid financial values,” Kattner says. “When you volunteer and work a 4-hour shift during a Lubbock JBF sale, you earn a higher percent of your gross sold items, increasing the return on your initial investment.”

Showing your children the lesson that a little bit of work and time can have large-scale payoffs in the end is a virtue that will help lead them down the path of financial stability for years to come.

The bottom line is this: the best way to raise financially responsible children is to show them a good example. If your financial situation isn’t up to par, you can’t expect your children to pick up responsible spending habits. The good news is it’s never too late to start heading down the path of being a good financial steward. Baby steps lead to walking, then eventually running. And when it comes to your financial stability, running down the right path for as long as possible earns you huge rewards later in life for yourself and your children. Being a good financial role model could quite possibly end up being the greatest lesson you teach your children.

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From Just Between Friends – Lubbock

To participate as a consignor or shopper, or to find out more details about the upcoming sale, Lubbock Just Between Friends Spring 2016 Consignment Sale happening March 9 – 12 at the Lubbock Memorial Civic Center, visit their website at http://lubbock.jbfsale.com.

Tips for Successful Spring Break College Visits

by Calli Christenson
Founder and Lead Consultant
CLC College Prep Services

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Calli Christenson, CLC College Prep Services

We are so fortunate and excited to introduce our newest LubbockForKids.com contributor: Calli Christenson with CLC College Prep Services.  Calli and her team at CLC assist high school students across the country, and internationally, with the ever-changing college prep process… and they are based right here in Lubbock!  Calli will share education and college prep tips with us from time to time, starting with her first guest blog that features great info for families who may be hitting the road over spring break to visit potential college campuses.
Welcome Calli!

Spring Break is right around the corner and provides the perfect time for high school students and parents to visit college campuses.A strong campus visit is the single best way to determine if a school is the right fit, and will ultimately help your child to narrow his or her college list.  Amidst the many tasks that high school students juggle – studying for college entrance exams, completing school assignments and filing college applications, to name a few – it is important to prioritize this piece of the college search and application process.  College visits during the sophomore and junior year of high school can prove to be very beneficial.  As you and your child get ready for this exciting time, here are a few tips to help you make the most of upcoming college tours:

Plan Ahead and Prioritize.

As you prepare for college visits, do your research and prioritize campuses you and your child want to see.  The reality is that you simply won’t be able to visit them all.  A good rule of thumb is to visit no more than two schools in one day. This should provide enough time to not only experience each campus, but to also get a taste of the surrounding neighborhoods and gain a better understanding of area safety, social life and job opportunities close to campus.  Include your child in the planning process and use sites like Goseecampus.com or the College Board’s Campus Visit Guide as resources to help with planning.

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Photo provided by CLC College Prep Services

Make it Official.

Although it can be tempting to do a campus “drive thru” and call it good, students and families who participate in official visits gain a greater understanding of the university as a whole.  Typically, short information sessions are offered on the front or back end of a student-led campus tour.  The info session presents a “highlight reel” of the campus and allows participants to ask questions. The campus tour is a way to see and experience, first-hand, the very best of each school’s facilities, traditions and culture. This information will reach far beyond what you might pick up from reading the school’s website or skimming a brochure you receive in the mail. Due to the high volume of visitors during popular travel times, it is important to register for these events through the school’s website, or by calling the admission office at least a couple of weeks in advance.

Take Advantage of Special Opportunities.

Many colleges allow prospective students to sit in on a class, tour a specific department, eat lunch in a dining hall or participate in an overnight visit. Don’t hesitate to inquire about special programs available. The opportunity to speak with a current student or meet with a faculty member can be a terrific way for students to experience life at the college and gain a better understanding of how and where they may fit at each school.

Document Your Visits.

As you take in each campus, encourage your child to document their thoughts through writing and taking pictures. By the time senior year rolls around, it will be difficult to keep all of the colleges and information neatly organized in your brain. Campus notes and pictures will help students quickly recall their overall impressions. Furthermore, as your student begins writing college essays, many schools will ask for detailed reasons for why they have chosen to apply. The ability to remember specifics from each school can make all the difference in essays that stand out from the crowd.

Let Your Child Lead.

As difficult as it might seem, your visits will likely be much more enjoyable and productive if you let your child experience them as the maturing adult that they are. There is a lot of value in parents visiting colleges with their kids, but the reality is that most teenagers want to feel in charge, confident, and self-sufficient – especially when surrounded by their peers. Encourage your child to engage, but don’t be disappointed if he or she doesn’t seem overly enthusiastic. This is all part of the process, and as your student moves closer to choosing a college, you will likely begin to hear more about their interests, dislikes and likes of the campuses they’ve toured. Simple steps like letting your child set-up the campus visit or allowing them to ask the majority of questions will show your child that you not only trust them, but you also support them on this exciting journey.

Photo provided by CLC College Prep Services

Calli Christenson is an Independent Educational Consultant and founder of CLC College Prep Services.  Prior to college consulting, she worked in undergraduate admissions, most recently serving as the Director of Undergraduate Admissions and Recruiting at Vanguard University of Southern California.  Calli is a Professional Member of the Independent Education Consultants Association (IECA) and holds a Certificate in Independent Educational Consulting from the University of California, Irvine. She is a member of the Higher Education Consultants Association (HECA), Texas Association for College Admission Counseling (TACAC) and a 2011 graduate of the IECA Summer Training Institute at Swarthmore College.

Questions for Calli?  Just comment below or she can be reached at calli@clccollegeprep.com. Follow her on Twitter @clccollegeprep and on Facebook at clccollegeprep

Parent Review: The Little Mermaid from Moonlight Broadway

Catch a Family Gem Under the Sea!  Weekend performances through Sunday February 21.

Crystal Sharadin as Ariel in the Lubbock Moonlight Broadway production of The Little Mermaid. Photo from Moonlight Musicals Facebook.

We all know, as parents, that the very best information we receive comes from other parents!  So to help spread the word on some of our favorite local events and activities, we’re kicking off a new segment on LubbockForKids.com that features the best reviews from area parents!  Got an idea for a scoop?  Share it with us and we’ll check it out! Interested in writing a review?  Contact us and let’s blog!  And this month’s review from our newest blog contributor Rebekah features one of our favorite local events (and the perfect Valentine treat for families!)… the latest performance from Moonlight Musicals’ Moonlight Broadway series:  The Little Mermaid.

Jeron Robinson as Flounder in the Lubbock Moonlight Broadway production of The Little Mermaid. Photo from Moonlight Musicals Facebook

by Rebekah Gillespie  

Are you looking for a magical experience full of wonder and excitement? Lubbock Moonlight Musicals is presenting Disney’s The Little Mermaid February 12-14, 19-21. This production is delightful entertainment for the entire family. The vibrant colors of the set and the exquisite costumes captivate the audience as well as the outstanding performance by the cast. This is the perfect venue for little girls to dress up in their favorite princess costumes or even as Princess Ariel. The cast is even available after the show to take pictures with the entire family.

 

 

 

Annie Nichols as Ursula in Lubbock Moonlight Broadway's production of The Little Mermaid.  Photo from Facebook.

Ann Marie Nichols as Ursula in Lubbock Moonlight Broadway’s production of The Little Mermaid. Photo from Moonlight Musicals Facebook.

Parent Pointers

It is important to mention to arrive extra early if you have tickets at will call or are purchasing tickets the day of the performance. Also, if you have higher seats you may want to bring binoculars or opera glasses to get a closer look at the action on stage. However, they are not necessarily needed because every seat in the theater has a clear view of the stage. I would also recommend selecting seats that are near the isle if you are bringing little children who may need frequent bathroom breaks during the performance. The production is approximately two to three hours long with an intermission but smaller children may get restless. You can get ticket information as well as upcoming productions by visiting the Lubbock Moonlight Musicals website.  Whether you are a season ticket holder or a first time attendee, you will not be disappointed by the this production. Reserve your tickets today and experience life under the sea with Lubbock Moonlight Musical’s The Little Mermaid.

The Little Mermaid stage

Photo by Rebekah Gillespie

Just the Facts!

When:  Friday & Saturday 2/12 & 2/13 at 7:30pm, Sunday 2/14 at 2pm then Friday 2/19 at 7:30pm  and Saturday & Sunday 2/20 & 2/21 at 2pm.
Where:  Lubbock Memorial Civic Center Theatre at 1501 Mac Davis Lane, Lubbock.
How:  Tickets available at Select-A-Seat locations, online, or by calling 806-770-2000.  Prices range from $25-$35 for children 2-12 years of age and $25-$65 for adults.
Length:  Lasts approx. 2 hours and 30 minutes with a 20 minute intermission.
Age:  Recommended for ages 3 and up.

Planning to go?  Let us know how you like the show!  Write your reviews below.

Rebekah is a blogger and mom of 2 who has recently embraced Lubbock and the Hub City area as her home. You can reach her by leaving a response on this blog article.  Find her at HubCityMom.com

Cultivate Empathy in Your Children Through Service to the Community

By Kelly Martin, M.Ed, LPC
Guest Contributor

Checkout the latest post from our contributor, Kelly Martin… owner of The Playroom Lubbock. She shares great insight into how we can extend the season of giving by creating a positive impact on our community and, perhaps more importantly, within our children and family year-round.  Perfect timing with the Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service coming up January 18, 2016. See Kelly’s link below for her Local and Global Outreach idea list… perfect for Lubbock area families… or contact the Volunteer Center Of Lubbock for more ideas.
Happy New Year!

Cultivate Empathy in Your Children Through Service to the Community

Throw kindness like confetti

“Throw kindness around like confetti.”

As we ring in and celebrate the New Year, let us think of ways to throw kindness around like confetti all year long. We want to teach our kids to think beyond themselves and their own needs. “It’s not enough to count our blessings and be thankful. Thankfulness should move us to action.” (Marla Kiley).

This action for service to others, fueled by thankfulness and encouraged by parents, will cultivate empathy in your children. When children have empathy, they model appreciation for many types of people, value others’ perspectives, build better relationships, and become better collaborators.

We want this to serve as a guide and a jumpstart for you to engage your families in acts of service in our community. When we express caring for others as a priority and follow through with service, our children will begin to believe our value and commitment.

What you want to instill:

You can serve right where you are.

You can serve the world from home.

Serve with your gifts (strengths/talents).

Serve to serve, not serve for praise.

Tips to Serving with Your Kids:

1. Prepare Your Kids.

Who we are serving?

 What will we be doing?

 Why does that help someone?

 What can we expect?

2. Practice What to Say/Do.

3. Make it Doable.

 Short, simple, fun

 If you try to plan too often, or too much, you’ll feel overwhelmed before you even start.

4. Reflect after the experience.

 Is it what you expected?

 How did it help?

 How did you feel?

 How did the other person possibly feel?

 What could we do different/same next time?

5. Recognize your child’s effort.

Specifically reflect back to your child what you saw him/her do.

 This encourages self-awareness and self-confidence.

If you are interested in organizations around our Lubbock community in which to serve with your family, please visit The Playroom Lubbock website where you’ll find our list of Lubbock Service Projects for your Family.

Kiley, Marla. “What is Service,” Discovery Years, December 2006.

Kelly Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor, parent, and owner of The Playroom Lubbock offering therapy counseling services specifically for children and adolescents.  From individual and group Play Therapy to yoga and parent-included classes, Kelly and her team offer a wealth of support for local kiddos and parents.  Specialties include divorce care, self esteem, social skills, anxiety, grief, anger management, ADHD support… topics that hit home with many area kids and families.  Have questions or ideas for future blog topics?  Just comment below or you can contact Kelly directly at kelly@playroomlubbock.com and through her website at Playroomlubbock.com.

Experience and Create Art with your Kids

By Jenny Lloyd-Strovas, Ph.D.
Guest Contributor

We are so excited to introduce our newest blog contributor Jenny Lloyd-Strovas, Ph.D.!
We met at the Wolfforth Water Expo where her group was helping educate and introduce families to the “Dearth Project: Communicating Science Through Art.”  We are honored that Jenny will be sharing her insights with our readers!  And we love her first article and the Lesson Plan she shares below. It gives parents the learning tools that make it easy for the family to spend an afternoon outside together, observing nature, learning about playa wetlands, and creating art as a family! For example: Do you know why they are called “Playa” lakes? Checkout her lesson plan to find out!  If you have any questions or ideas for Jenny, just comment below.
Welcome Jenny!

Are you looking for something fun
AND educational to do with your children
before summer ends?

We have an idea for you!

Create and Experience ART about NATURE.

The Louise Hopkins Underwood Center for the Arts (LHUCA) recently hosted an art exhibit called  “Dearth: Communicating Science Through Art” celebrating the two primary water sources in the Texas Panhandle: Playa Wetlands and the Ogallala Aquifer.  Dearth is a word of many facets.  As a whole, it means scarcity or lacking, but by breaking it down you find the words “art” and “earth”. The Dearth Project is true to its name in all facets. It is an artistic expression of the water scarcity issues in the Texas Panhandle.

The exhibit included works of art from area children that expressed Dearth.

Dearth gallery

Interested in creating a Dearth experience with your family?  
Click here to find a lesson plan
that will walk you through educational materials and a few different art activities related to playa wetlands. Please feel free to leave your comments concerning the activities – we’d love to hear from you!

Get Outside with your Family and Learn about Nature!

Girl in nature

 

S’more Brownie Ice Cream Cake - A Zesty Bite for Lubbock Kids!

Just in time for summer, our local foodie contributor Meagan at A Zesty Bite has come up with another recipe that all our kids are going love (we may even need to fight them for a bite!)…. S’more Brownie Ice Cream Cake.

S'more Brownie Ice Cream Cake

You may have heard some buzz over the last few weeks about Tillamook now offering their premium Ice Cream products in the Lubbock area.  Well, they sent Meagan some ice cream samples and she designed something so yummy that she wanted to make sure our readers were in the know.   And the timing couldn’t be better as many local families are going through Blue Bell withdrawl!

We really love this recipe because it’s perfect to make with the kids (only 5 ingredients!) and also the perfect project to kickoff summer and celebrate another great school year!

For the entire recipe, just jump over to Meagan’s S’more Brownie Ice Cream Cake recipe on A Zesty Bite.

And do lookout for the new Tillamook Ice Cream (it’s now at some area United stores and you can confirm locations using the Tillamook location finder)… we love the fact that it has no artificial colors, flavors, sweeteners, or high-fructose corn syrup.  The company has been in existence since 1909 and was founded as a farmer-owned co-op.  Lots of awards on all their dairy products so they are tried and true… which explains why it tastes like a little spoonful of summer!

Thanks for sharing Meagan!

S'more Brownie Ice Cream Cake